• Thanksgiving…

    My younger son and his precious family arrived on Wednesday evening before Thanksgiving in the midst of falling snow and a cold, cold wind.  I had not seen them for six long months and I was literally “bananas” waiting to grab my beautiful little granddaughters in my arms.  I was afraid my 15 month old granddaughter would not remember me (though we’ve talked on FaceTime).  I held her in my arms and she sweetly studied my face.  I smiled at her and said “it’s Grandmommy!” and she gave me an enormous smile which reached those beautiful blue eyes!  Needless to say, my heart melted.  I knelt down to embrace three year old granddaughter and planted kisses on her cheeks and sweet little head.  I kept saying “I’ve missed you so, so much!” and she said “I missed you too, Grandmommy!”  Again, my heart melted!

     

    Thanksgiving at my daughter’s home was a wonderful time with two of my children, two of my other children (my son-in-love and daughter-in-love), six out of nine of my grandchildren, Doug and his sweet 95-year-old Mom and two granddogs, Kiana & Bernie!  There was a lot of laughter and a lot of really good food!  My daughter had purchased a 26 pound fresh turkey from a local farmer.  She brined it overnight before cooking it and the result was a moist, delicious turkey.  She prepared all the wonderful side dishes and three different pies which were excellent.  My daughter-in-love put together the large vegetable tray and made one of my favorites – a spinach-artichoke-garlic dip served with pita chips.  Delicious!  With Doug’s help, I made a cheese ball and baked dozens of different cookies the day before Thanksgiving because I knew once my little granddaughters arrived, I would just be playing!  Which I did!

    A happy, blessed grandmother…

     

    My daughter falling in love with her baby brother’s baby…

     

    Doug and Mary, his sweet 95-year-old Mom, enjoying Thanksgiving with my family…

     

    No better place to be than in the floor playing with my grandchildren!

     

    In the midst of all the excitement and joy of being together, I had to pause and reflect for just a moment.  

    I have so much to be thankful for and I truly am…

  • Precious days…

     I flew back to the Midwest last Saturday after nine precious days in Dallas. 
    There is absolutely nothing in this world like meeting a new grandchild for the very first time. 
    Pure joy…
    Sweetness personified! 

     
     Newborns like to sleep a lot, but when she was awake, those gorgeous blue eyes looked right into mine.
    Sometimes she smiled at me.
    Be still, my heart. 
    So precious and beautiful…
     
     
     
     
    Two days after I arrived, we celebrated her big sister’s second birthday!
    With Minnie Mouse!
    I can’t believe how fast she has grown and how smart she is – of course!
    So precious and beautiful…
     
     

     

    We had a wonderful, BUSY, fun nine days and I miss them all already!

    I miss my granddog Bernie too!  😉

     

     
     
  • Bernie…

    I’ve always loved big dogs.  For fifteen years, Alex shared our lives.  A large, bull-headed Golden Retriever with an independent spirit, Alex once traveled 25 miles to get back home to us…but that’s a story for another time.  Abby, my black Labrador Retriever, was loved by me and all the neighbors.  She was so well-trained that I felt guilty for having her…she would have been an excellent guide dog.  Nevertheless, I loved Abby and she loved me.

    At one point, I thought I wanted a Bullmastiff – until a neighbor moved in with one and I saw firsthand the long strings of industrial lubricant coming out of that dog’s mouth!  I changed my mind about owning one and just enjoyed my neighbor’s dog.

    Once, during a business trip to San Antonio, my husband and I wandered through the back stage door (left open by a television crew member) of an AKC nationally televised dog show.  (We were at the same conference center for my husband’s meeting.)  I was in dog heaven!  No one questioned our being there as we visited with all the dogs waiting to parade around in the show ring…many breeds that I had not seen up close and personal before.  One giant black teddy bear, disguised as a Newfoundland, captured my eye and my heart.

    All big dogs – until Bernie. Bernie showed up on my son’s front porch in Dallas on a cold night the first week in December 2012.  My daughter-in-love says that my son’s eyes lit up when he saw a puppy peering in at them through the long kitchen window.  The story goes that my son (who has also always loved big dogs) opened the front door and Bernie raced in.  Bernie ran around and around the kitchen island and then looked up at him as if to say, “well, I’m home now”.  Unfortunately, my son’s sweet wife is severely allergic to dogs (hives!) but what was she to do?!  Bernie was home and she fell in love with him too.  As the months have passed, thankfully, she has built up somewhat of an immunity to Bernie.

    Above:  resting on the sofa, wearing one of the sweaters in his new wardrobe.  

    My son also ordered Bernie an Indiana University collar, tag and leash!   

    Bernie is now a Hoosier!

    They tried to find his “owner” but no responses to their efforts.  According to the vet, Bernie was still a puppy – maybe about 5 months – and, apparently, had been “on the streets” for about a month.  He was riddled with worms and needed care.  About a thousand dollars later, Bernie was one microchipped, newly neutered, very HEALTHY puppy with all the shots and treatments he needed.  His dark coat and bright eyes now shone.  Bernie is attached to the family now – especially my 6’1″ son – and is very good with my toddler granddaughter.  There is a very cute video of her feeding Bernie one morsel at the time to get him to eat.

    I had never really been around small dogs before but quickly fell in love with Bernie.  In one deer-like leap, Bernie was in my lap.  He would curl up beside me on the sofa as I read and quickly go to sleep.  He would bring me toys to throw and play with him.  Maybe he knew my history was with retrievers for he would actually retrieve the toy!  Bernie is a smart dog!   He really isn’t a “yapper” but will growl or bark if he hears something suspicious.  He’s so tiny that I’m not sure what he could do about it, but he’s a good little sentry.  Personally, after a little research, I think Bernie is a “designer” dog called a Jack-Chi:  1/2 Jack Russell and 1/2 Chihuahua.

    Whatever his origins, Bernie has found his home.

    Note:  my Executive Producer son is a comedy lover from way back and now uses that in his morning television show.  Bernie’s name was inspired by the movie “Weekend at Bernie’s”.

     

    Above:  Bernie has his own comfortable bed but usually winds up sleeping with “Mom & Dad” which means allergic Mom must wash the comforter frequently!

    Below:  December 2012…the morning after Bernie arrived.