• Days gone by…

    Yesterday, I traveled with my daughter and three of  her children to see a parcel of land (almost six acres) for sale.  It was the perfect afternoon to be in the country with clear blue skies overhead and a strong breeze blowing through all the trees on the property.  And there were plenty of trees:  an apple orchard, a long stand of black walnut trees, mulberry, oak, maple, large hackberry trees and an assortment of beautiful evergreens.  My daughter has been “homesteading” to some degree at their home in a suburb of Des Moines for quite some time.  She longs for land and a place to have a very large garden, chickens and maybe even dairy goats.  I come from a long line of Scottish farmers.  Maybe she inherited some of that love for the land.

    The farmhouse on the land was built in 1920 and has seen better days.  It has no central heat or air conditioning.  There is a substantial wood stove in the family room which would heat part of the house.  The hope was to be able to move the house to another part of the land and build their new home where the old house stood.  I think each of us had pictured decorating an old farmhouse!

    The beautiful setting reminded me of traveling with my parents as a child to visit aunts and uncles living in the country.  Sadly, my parents sold their farm before I was born.  I would have loved growing up in the country!  I remember visiting my Aunt Lillian and her family on a farm in Mississippi.  I loved it!  My cousins and I would pick blackberries by the train trestle.  We might have returned with a few chiggers but we also returned with big, juicy blackberries!  Aunt Lillian would make a delicious blackberry cobbler on the old wood stove.  She would also make tender huge biscuits just like Mama’s.  Perhaps they inherited their gift for cooking from my grandmother.

    The wood stove always fascinated me.  Even as a child, I wondered how she knew when the temperature was right for baking those delicious cakes, pies and biscuits.  Somehow, it seemed like magic but, even as a child, I knew it couldn’t be that simple.  I knew even then there was work involved.

    I’m a little too “old” to start homesteading now but I do admire those who are investing in their future by learning from days gone by…

    By the way, if you’re interested in enjoying food actually prepared on a wood burning stove, visit here to learn about a visit to the Living History Farms in Des Moines, Iowa, where you can do just that!  Also, here is a good article about how the cooks of yesteryear determined the temperature of their wood stove!  The wood burning stove at top was featured in Country Living.

  • Autumn days…

    The weather has turned cool here at last.  The trees are finally wearing their Autumn shades of gold, crimson, deep ruby and russet orange. It is time to drag out the sweaters and place a warmer blanket on the bed.  My favorite time of year, Autumn makes me happy.  It brings back memories of harvest festivals of years gone by…apple picking…apple dumplings…homemade apple pies.

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    My daughter purchased two bushels of apples, and tomorrow I will help her turn those apples into delicious apple butter!  Years ago, when we lived in Indiana, my sisters and my niece Sharon came for a visit.  We traveled to Nashville, Brown County, Indiana.  It’s a wonderful little town with quaint shops, resident artists and wonderful food.  There, at the Nashville House Dining Room in the historic Brown County Inn, I had some of the best oven baked apple butter I have ever tasted.  I came home and tried to duplicate it and actually came close.  Now, years later, they actually share the recipe here!

    Tonight, I will go with my daughter and her family to “The Great Pumpkin Party” at church…just as we did last year.  The large church is equipped all over (indoors) with all sorts of fun events for children – including different “jumping” houses and games.  There are also pony rides outside.  They love it and it is so much fun!

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    My thanks to those of you who’ve stuck with me through this “postless” last month.  Excuses?  I’ve been traveling and spending time with precious grandchildren – both near and far.  These days, I am also traveling back in time as I spend hours working, once again, on my family history.  Yesterday, I found myself missing Dot, my late oldest sister and the one who dreamed of being able to trace our ancestors as far back as possible.  We were actually “stuck” on Mama’s maternal grandmother, Mary Frances Cooper.  I wrote for her death certicate.  Fifteen years ago – that was how you had to do it.  There were a few clues but also the wrong first initial of her father.  The information about her was being given over the telephones of yesteryear.  Her father’s first name was Vincent.  My Dad was listed as the informant and gave the individual asking for the information the letter “V”.  Over the phone, “V” can sound like “B” and that’s what they wrote down!  In the old days, they used a lot of initials for first names and that can throw a curve.

    Yesterday, I finally traced Mary Frances Cooper’s family all the way back to her immigrant ancestor and my 6th great-grandfather, William Cooper, who was born in 1669 in Warwickshire, England!  He immigrated to America and arrived in Virginia with his wife Elizabeth Lawrence in 1718!  The find was so bittersweet…for I wanted to share it with Dot.  I hope she knows.  There are more branches of this family tree to complete now.

    I’m rather surprised to say that THIS is my one-hundredth post!  I’m looking forward to sharing more of my Sweet Journey Home and I thank you for following along with me…

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  • The sixth day of August…

    There are some days in life that are just bittersweet…today is one of those days.

    On a sweet note, today is Cindy’s birthday.  She is my sister Gerry’s firstborn.  Cindy is beautiful with a heart of gold…just like her late Mom.  She has an ever ready smile and a wonderful sense of humor.  We are always laughing when we’re all together.  An amazing pianist and wonderful teacher, she must bless the hearts of the students at the college where she teaches.  No doubt, she blesses the hearts of our entire family…just as she blesses mine.  Happy Birthday, Cindy!  I love you.  Wish I could be there to celebrate with all of you!

    Love this photo from about 1957.  Cindy was almost 5 and I was 12.  (Guessing at the year and ages here.)

    Apparently, I’d propped her up in the car window!  I was a really good baby sitter!

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    Sadly, today also marks the ninth anniversary of my beautiful sister Dot’s death.  She fought a courageous battle against AML (Acute Myloid Leukemia) but Heaven needed her.  She had such strength and optimism.  She believed in FAMILY more than anyone I have ever known.  Dot remembered special days with a card, a note or a call.  She organized family reunions and made sure that we all got together.  She had a gift for staying in touch.  Dot had the burden/privilege of being the oldest…maybe that comes with the territory.  As I shared in the previous post, searching for our family roots was Dot’s inspiration and I will honor her by finishing it.  She would like that.  

    How I would love to answer the phone and hear her quip one more time, “Hello!  What’s going on besides the rent?” with that smile in her voice.  I miss her every single day…but I will see her in Heaven.

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  • The first day of August…

    The first day of August is a day to celebrate…and remember.  Today is my beautiful sister Gerry’s birthday.  No doubt, she is celebrating in Heaven with my family who have gone before…but I miss her.  I miss her sweet Southern voice and that forever smile.  I know I will see her again in Heaven.

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    Today is my sweet daughter-in-love’s birthday…my younger son’s wife.  She has the same kind, all-encompassing and loving spirit that my sister Gerry had.  I was with her and my newborn granddaughter when I received the call that Gerry had lost her battle with ALS.  The tears rolled down her face as she listened to my conversation on the phone and felt my pain.  She is a wonderful wife and amazing mother to my 22-month-old granddaughter.  She is due to deliver their second daughter any day now.  I can’t wait!  Happy Birthday, sweetheart!

    Photo below:  their wedding.  I was surprised and touched to see the blue cotton plaid handkerchief tied around her bouquet at the wedding.  It had belonged to my Dad…

     

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    The first day of August is my precious daughter and sweet son-in-love’s wedding anniversary.  Today marks 21 years together and a life filled with four wonderful children and joy.  I’m blessed to be this amazing young man’s “other mother”!  He has been there for me over the years – especially this past one – and I am so thankful for him.  Happy Anniversary!  Tonight, I will “babysit” (read have a lot of fun) my four granchildren as the two of them go out for dinner.  I’m looking forward to it!

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  • One fun visit…

    This time last week, I was enjoying my first out-of-town company since moving into the condo.  Penny, my sister-in-law of 39 years, and her sweet husband Mike had arrived about 9:30 p.m. the night before in the midst of a typically severe Midwest thunderstorm.  I greeted them with hugs and a “welcome to Iowa”!

    The photo below of (L to R) Mike, Penny, me and Bill was taken sometime in the mid-1970’s.  When you’ve been together since 1966, there is a storehouse of memories and a strong bond.  I’m sure Bill was looking down from Heaven…reminiscing along with us and laughing at the three of us. 

     

     

    We enjoyed a leisurely breakfast and lunch together each day.  In the afternoon, we headed over to my daughter’s house for a fun visit and delicious supper.  The grandchildren love Aunt Penny & Uncle Mike!  It was all so much fun.

    As a superb craftsman and “handyman”, Mike found several things around the condo that needed repair and attention – and fixed them!  I had been living with having to plug/unplug the lamp in the living room each day…trying not to trip over the exposed cord!   (The condo was built in the 80’s and does not have a plug in the floor).  Among other creative fixes, Mike devised a method of hiding a new cord under my large area rug and plugged it in behind the entertainment center.  No more exposed cord and no more tripping over it!  Oh, so much better that I did a little happy dance!  😉

    One day, we headed to Lowe’s where we picked up brown felt feet for all my bookcases, entertainment center, table and chairs (Mike’s super idea).  Since they came in their dual-cab truck, we also picked up a glass-topped round table and  two new chairs for my porch – in keeping with the blue & green theme of the pillows which my daughter selected.  I also found another inexpensive table to elevate my other fern.  Mike arranged all the furniture on the porch and it looks great!  Penny says he’s a “keeper” and I agree!

    They had been searching for a travel trailer and actually purchased one here!  It’s a 24′ one that can sleep 6, complete with television, stove top, microwave, bathroom and table & banquet!  It looks so comfortable – a home away from home in the Smokies or wherever they journey.  My grandchildren loved it – especially since they had to store it at my daughter’s house while they were here.

    After the Monday night storm on the evening they arrived, the weather turned cool and very much like Fall.  The porch was a very pleasant place to be.  They enjoyed sitting out there and Penny especially enjoyed reading there.

    All too soon, our visit was over and they made the long trip back to Memphis – this time pulling a 24′ travel trailer!  Thank you, Mike and Penny, for the fun visit and all the help.  I miss you guys already.  Come back soon!

     

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  • Memories of the Fourth of July…

    When my three sisters and I began our family history search ( inspired and instigated by my oldest sister Dot), we made several family history journeys…with so much laughter and fun as the four of us traveled together.  Sometimes, my niece Sharon accompanied us and there was even more laughter.  One of those trips was to Jackson, Mississippi, where we spent the day in the Mississippi archives.  Another search took us to Pontotoc  County, Mississippi, where Mama and Daddy were both born.  There, we visited both the library and the dusty archives of the small town newspaper.  Most of the articles were not on microfiche or anything more updated, so we searched through dozens of large leather-bound journals containing newspapers from many decades ago. 

    We would get so excited whenever we found an article about our family.  One such article was written about Mama’s Fourth of July birthday party held at their home.  From the date, they would not have been married very long.  It described the menu (including homemade ice cream – or “cream” as Daddy called it.  Year after year, there was a twofold celebration…Mama’s birthday and our nation’s independence. 

    As the years rolled by and we daughters were born, the celebration continued.  As we grew up, got married and had families, the celebration continued.  Every year, the family gathered for a picnic and cookout with all the trimmings in her honor. In later years, it was held at my oldest sister Dot’s house because she had a swimming pool. Memphis is hot in the summertime and the kids loved the pool. Dot would bake a large chocolate sheet cake with a hint of cinnamon and a delicious chocolate icing. Sometimes, she’d decorate the top. It was so very good. My mouth waters just remembering. With the cake, there would be homemade vanilla ice cream, usually my sister Gerry’s specialty. Before dessert, of course, there would be delicious grilled hamburgers, baked beans, potato salad and other wonderful dishes. In later years, we’d sometimes order Memphis barbeque at its best – from Corky’s.

    These will always be my memories of the Fourth of July…my dear parents, my sisters, my precious family.  I have no doubt they are celebrating in Heaven today.  Happy Birthday, Mama… 

     

    Below:  the McGregor girls at one of Mama’s Fourth of July birthay parties…

     

     

     Below:  Dianne and Gerry at Mama’s 4th of July birthday party at Dot’s house. About 1990.

     

    Below are just a few of the members of my large family.  I need to dig through all my photos and scan the rest!  I faithfully took my Pentax K1000 to every single function we had.  Everybody teasingly complained then.  Now, they are glad for a bit of history captured on film.

     Below:  My sister Gerry and my niece Sharon about 1982.  Mama’s Fourth of July birthday party at Sharon’s house.

      

    Below:  my oldest, my great-niece Dawn and my niece Gina

     

    Below:  my sister Dot and her husband Tom…late 80’s.

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     Below:  my sister Eunice and her husband Eddie.

     

    Bill and me at a Fourth of July birthday party for Mama…early 90’s.

     

    Below:  my sister Gerry at another Fourth of July at Dot’s house… 

     

     Below:  three of my nieces at Dot’s house…late 80’s.

     

    Below:  Mama’s Fourth of July birthday party at my niece Sharon’s house – about 1983. 

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     Below:  my oldest two with their “Mamaw”…about 1990…at Dot’s house.

      

     

    Below:  my sister Gerry and her husband, my niece and her son (who is now in his third year of medical school!)

     

     

    My niece…Gerry’s older daughter.  I wish you could hear her play the piano…